You cannot DEMAND respect.
You can only COMMAND respect.
No amount of throwing your weight around, physically or intellectually, will win you the respect of others. You can’t bully your way to being respected, you can’t coerce people into respecting you. And you can’t show off to win respect, you can’t get respect by showing others up, being more intellectual or show-boating that you are smarter than everyone else.
You just can’t DEMAND respect that way.
But you can COMMAND respect, by being nice, by showing integrity, by living a life based on quality values and kindness.
Strong-arm tactics is bullying, that won’t work. But showing strength of character, based in integrity, will command the respect of others.
Putting others down by trying to show off how intelligent you are will only gain you contempt, not respect. But sharing what you know in order to help others, and learning from your mistakes in life and then improving over time, shows humility and wisdom, and these will COMMAND respect from those around you.
Sadly, it seems that far too many people out there are unaware of these subtle differences, and they are out there trying to DEMAND respect, throwing their weight around and showing off in every direction.
Don’t let them fool you for a second.